How do you stop loving for man you are inlove with but he dont want you anymore?

i have dated a man off and on for the last 2 1/2 years and all i want to do is get more serious example stay over more nights such thing but he wants me in his life but he dont want me out in public anymore. i am inlove with him and he keeps telling me im his best friend but that is all he wants. I fell inlove at first sight and i have never changed that its him that changed. I keep holding to the day he realizes how much i do love him and how great we really could be if he would just seriously gives us a try instead of best friends with benefits. I want more and im not getting any younger maybe i should just settle for someone instead of the one that i am inlove..How do you stop loving for man you are inlove with but he dont want you anymore?
never just settle those type of things always end bad but its time to move on find someone else to share and love the good parts of life withHow do you stop loving for man you are inlove with but he dont want you anymore?
he is not interested in being with you so I recommend you move on. Limit or eliminate contact with him should diminish your feelings for him. Immediately stop sleeping with him because he is basically saying you are good enough to be with behind closed doors but not in public. Almost like he is ashame of you.
Well, you know where he stands and unless you want it to continue this way you need to look elsewhere. Is he really the best man on earth, one that doesn't even want to go out in public with you? You deserve so much better. I know it will be hard but there is something much better in the cards for you, someone that you love at least as much and will treat you like you want. Run and run fast, you need something better and there IS something better out there for you as hard as you may find it hard to believe.
well try talking to him.

explain your situation and what you want.

if he doesn't understand i would leave and find someone else.
girl you should defently dump this guy!! if he really truely love you he woun't treat you the way his treating you not wanting to been seen with you out in public!! come on his a jerk i am sorry to tell you this but u deserve better somebody that will respect you and want to be seen with you in public and show you off. I am also telling you this cause i been there i had and ex-bf that din't want nobody to know that we were together and every weekend he would go out to the club with a bunch of his gf's and lie to me about it later i would find out from othere people. I felt like he was ashem of me like he dint want nobody to know he was with me, I got tired of been treated like that cause i know i deserve better and so do you !! there's a guy out there that is going to treat you like u deserve to be treated please think about your self and your happiness if you don't nobody else will. good luck.
It is hard to stop loving someone but in this situtation you need to work on finding someone else and end the relatioship with him. As I see it he is more then likely seeing other people or someone else and is trying to keep you from finding out. He is using you for sex only and when it is convienent for him, he knows he can call you and you will go runnning to him. You need to stop running to hom ASAP. He is just using you and doesn't care about your feelings. I know exactly how you feel in this situation as I was in this same type of situation...hmmm...wonder if it is the same man!

He will never realize what the two of you could have had because he can't see past his d*** nor will he ever find anyone to put up with his crap. From what you have said you are an older woman so he has got to be an older man and probably never married, lives alone, thinks he is all that because of what he has (or thinks he has) and probably hasn't been in a true relationship in years if ever!

He is not worth your time or heartache, don't let him use you.

If you need someone to talk to that has been in this same situation then please feel free to email me and I will gladly respond.