What if the person you love moved away how long should you wait?

What if you fell in love with this man and his job moved him 450 miles away and you could not go there because of your child in high school. He calls you everyday and everynight and tells you they love you and miss you. Its been a year and I have to wait until she graduates. He says he doesn't have a job here so he can't move here. Then he says he can't make ends meet so he is moving in with someone but will keep his stuff in storage. I tell him no way that he will be sleeping with her and he says well do you want me to leave you alone!! Besides he says well I am looking for another job and won't be there long, because the job he is looking at is in another state. But I know she loves him. So what the crap does he think I am going just sit by and wait while he lives with someone else? He says he is waiting until she graduates so we can be together. He says he has waited a year for me but he hasn't he is going to live with someone.What if the person you love moved away how long should you wait?
I suggest you move on....... it sounds to me that he already has, but is stringing you along. Are you allowed to go visit him while he is living with this other lady? Tell him you are going to, see how he reacts, I bet he suggests staying at a hotel, and not the home of this lady... if that's the case, can him, and get over him now! You've already waisted too much of your time!What if the person you love moved away how long should you wait?
You just realized that you are the woman on the side? You should have dumped him 3 months after he moved and found someone new.
If you are positive that he has something going on with this other woman that he lives with then you should have already severed the ties. Why would you let him string you along like that. Your child is in high school and 450 miles really isn't that far...like a seven hour drive...If there were not other factors defeating your relationship- that short distance you live apart would not have become an issue. Don't let yourself be strung along on empty promises. He has someone else in his life and you should have enough self-respect to not let him keep you on the back burner until he has time to get to you. You are worth more than that and it's my opinion that you need to move on and find happiness for your life. All you are doing now is boosting/stroking his ego when he needs something more than what he is getting from the other woman in his life. Forget about him and open up your heart for that true love that is waiting out there for you. Fare Thee Well.
like you i trusted in everything i thought to be true and waited for them,but if they really cared they would do what it takes to get to you or ensure that you can trust them entirely...find a man that will adore you love you entirely and be for you like you deserve...it hurts when love is only onesided and the other walks leaving the other standing wondeing wtf...so bugger that jerk you deserve someone worthy of giving your everything to and when you meet such a person your life will be unbelievable...good luck and if you need someone to chat to feel free to message me..
If you are sure that he loves you well dont get freaky.

On the other hand 450 miles is not really a huge distance to go by car or public transport to find out. Face him and make than what ever you feel