Sunday, December 11, 2011

A possiblity thatmy man cheated and the girl is pregnant but if he didnt should i stay or should i go? i dono.

she sent me a note saying that she is pregnant by him and is is staying with here and i havent seen him since his b-day which was march12. he hasnt called me in 3 wks and he posted a journal saying.'; i woke up this morning wondering what if she is pregnant then how do i tell the other about us that doesnt know.'; then he also said. what to do about the famous quote '; never leave the one you love for the one that you like becuase the one that you like will leave you for the one they love... he keeps saying that he needs help. im a good female and i need advice.. if he didnt cheat and she isnt pregnant then should i stay and make things work or should i go? we have been together for 6 mnths and right now i consider myself pregnant.. he have only seen eacother about half of the 6 mnths and we dont really spend time together.. he is in beaumont and he was going to lamar and she is in beaumont and goes to the same school. so what to do i need serious advice for a real ***** and a real femaleA possiblity thatmy man cheated and the girl is pregnant but if he didnt should i stay or should i go? i dono.
He did cheat because there is a possibility that he is this child's father. He's not God and she ain't the Virgin Mary so we know it wasn't immaculate conception. He cheated and you need to decide if this relationship is worth fighting for. I wonder if he's lying to you if you need someone like him in your life.A possiblity thatmy man cheated and the girl is pregnant but if he didnt should i stay or should i go? i dono.
he gone let him go and get some on new that will love you and respect you
have sex with his best friend, get pregnant and tell him it is his. Then he will stay with you and on the kid's 18 birthday break the news to him. Watch him cry. That is all.
It seems he has already left you. Move on; don't get yourself wrapped up in his crazy life. Go make something of yourself. Do all the things you wish you could. Because one day before you know it you'll be tied down to some guy again.
LEAVE HIM HE IS NOT WORTHY OF YOU
ARe you serious? Do you really need to ask if you should go? He doesn,t want you , he found someone else. Learn from this and move on. You ';Can,t '; make things work if he doesn,t want you.
~~~~~~NO DONT STAY WITH HIM I'M SORRY BUT WHY ARE YOU EVEN THINKING OF STAYING WITH HIM~~~~~~~~
in this situation i would say move on. you don't want to go into a relationship or marriage with the baggage you now have. he cheated on you and if he did it this time he will probally do it again so save yourself the trouble...and if he isn't calling you now then take that as a hint. I know it hurts but you have to do whats right for you.
Hunni, it sounds like hes cheated, you need to leave him, he obv doesnt respect you enough.



But just to be sure, bring up all the evidence and ask him, see what he says.
First of all how do you consider yourself pregnant? You either are or you aren't! Secondly, doesn't sound like it was working that well anyway, he doesn't call, apparently stays with another girl and if he thinks she might be pregnant he obviously did 'cheat' with her. So hmm what is the question? I think maybe you both need help.
You should go, he cheated and now he got someone pregnant. You guys have one been together for 6 months and he couldn't even stay faithful for that long. Hez not worth giving another chance, that soon in to a relationhip, no one should be given a chance. He probably knows that he did something messed up, only because he prolly doesn't want to be a dad. You guys hardly talk and see eachother, the relationship is practically over. I think he mught break up with you. You should break up with him, before he breaks up with you, because hez the one that cheated, NOT YOU.
You definetly dont need that kinda of stress or deserve that behavior from your man! Your mans suppose to be there for you and respect you, not go away for awhile without talking/ seeing you! Gurl get out of it before its too late! Find a man thats gonna do you right, not wrong! Best of Luck!!
You need to leave this guy!!! You are walking straight into a domestically violent relationship and you don't even know it. If he doesn't talk to you and you don't spend much time together now, then you honestly think he's gonna be around when your child is born? probably not. no man is worth waiting around for-go find yourself something better:)
The question you are asking is trully not that important.... you should be asking yourself do I want to be with someone who cheated on me? not should I stay if the person he cheated with is not pregnant.



Think about the type of person he is to sleep around with someone else... AND not use any type of birth control or STD protection. Is that who you would want to spend time with? Do you want to spend time with someone who does not give the same respect that you have been giving him? (assuming you are being faithful to him )



If I were you I would really think more about those things and not worry about this girl who maybe preg. Thats her problem not yours.
Ok pimp here you go. First find out for sure if the woman is pregnant. If so then leave sweetie with your head held high knowing you did your part 'til the end. If not then find out if you're experiencing insecurity issues. Talk to him so he'll know he can come to you about anything no matter what it is and look at his every facial expression. Things never just fall in to place you have to work hard at a meaningful relationship that involves communication, honesty, trust, commitment, loyalty %26amp; respect. There are other things but you get what I'm sayin' right. Everyone is going to go through some hurt %26amp; pain but unwanted H %26amp; P we don't need in our lives so if it's not right for you then don't do it. Hope all ends well for you sweetie, peace.
oh dear, you poor girl. You almost say it as a fact yourself, get away from that looser! He is nothing but a vampire, feeding on innocent girls. You said you are a nice girl, I know for a fact that it is plenty of fish in the water, who will give you the respect you and every other girl truly deserves. girl power. be strong!
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