*** 60 Islamic Ways To Get & Keep Your Wife's Love Forever Insh'Allah ***?

1. Make her feel secure; QUIT BEING AGGRESSIVE



2. When you go home say 'Assalamualikum.' (Greetings) It kicks the shaitaan out of your home!



3. Prophet (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) described the wife as a fragile vessel and said to take care of this vessel that’s fragile. Remember that there is goodness in this vessel so treat it gently.



4. When you advise her, do so in privacy, in a peaceful environment. NOT IN PUBLIC as it’s a type of slandering.



5. Be generous to your wife- it keeps her LOVED



6. Move and let her have your seat. It will warm her heart.



7. AVIOD ANGER. HOW? Keep your wudu at all times. Prophet Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam said if you are angry, sit down, if you’re sitting, then lie down. Follow the sunnah!



8. Look good and smell great for your wife. IT keeps the LOVE!



9. Don’t be rigid. It will break you. Prophet Mohammed - Sallal lahu Aleihi Wasallam (SAW means “May the blessings and the peace of Allah be upon him” (Muhammad).) said 'I am the best amongst you and I am the best to my wife'. Being rigid and harsh will not bring you close to Allah and neither does it make you more of a man.



10. Listen to your wife-BE a GOOD LISTENER



11. YES to flattering NO to arguing. Arguing is like poison in a marriage. Al zawai said 'When Allah (swt) wants evil for people He will leave them to argue amongst themselves'.



12. Prophet (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) said to call your wives with the best name, any name she loves to hear. Prophet Mohammed (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) called Aisha 'ya Aish' as an endearment.



13. Give her a pleasant surprise. I.e. if she loves watermelon, bring her one out of the blue. It will grow the love in her heart.



14. Preserve your tongue! Prophet (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) said the tongue will throw people in the hell fire so watch what you say and how you say it!



15. All of us have shortcoming. Accept her shortcoming and Allah (swt) will put barakh in your marriage.



16. TELL her you appreciate her. SHOW her you appreciate her.



17. Encourage her to keep good relation with her relative, her mum and dad etc.



18. Speak with her with a topic of HER interest.



19. In front of her relative praise her. Confirm/ realize that she is wonderful, and that she is a good person in front of her family.



20. Give each other gifts. You will love each other more. Prophet (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) said gifts increases love.



21. Get rid of the routine once in a while, surprise her with something, it will get rid of the rust and polish it!



22. We have a demand from Allah (swt) that we have to think good of people. Think good of your spouse.



23. Ignore some of her mistakes- pretend you did not see/hear some of her small mistakes. It’s like putting a hole in your memory. Don’t save it in your memory!



24. Increase the drops of patience, especially when she is pregnant or when she is on her monthly period.



25. Expect and respect her jealousy. Even Aisha (ra) used to get jealous.



26. Be humble. If your profession is good, respect that she is looking after your children, she is much more than you, she is the leader at home, her strength is your strength, and her success is your successes.



27. Don't put your friends above your wife.



28. Help your wife at home. Prophet (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) used to help his wives at home and he was the best of creation. He used to sew his own clothes.



29. Help her respect your parents, you can’t force her to love them, but she can be helped to gradually love them.



30. Show your wife she is the ideal wife.



31. Remember your wife in your duaas. It will increase the love and protect it.



32. Leave the past. It brings nothing but pain and grief. It’s not your business. The past is for Allah (swt).



33. Don't try to show her that you are doing her a favour by doing something, like buying food for the house, because in reality we are the courier of sustenance, not the providers, as Allah is the provider. It’s also a way of being humble and thankful to Allah (swt)



34. Shaitaan is your enemy, not your wife. Sometime when husband and wife are talking a fight breaks out, then shaitaan is present there as a third person so he is the real enemy. It is not enough to hate the shaitaan, but you have to see him as an enemy as Allah has commanded. Shaitaan loves divorce. HE comes everyday and sits office and asks the devils what they have done, some say i have made a person steal, or i have made someone drink etc. And one devil will say i have made a man divorce his wife, and he is crowned as the one who has done the best job.



35. Take the food and put it in her mouth. Prophet (Sallal lahu alaihy Wasallam) taught us this. It’s a blessing. The food doesn’t just go to her stomach, but straight to her heart. It increases the love and mercy between you.



36. Protect your wife from the evil of the shaitaan and mankind. She is like a precio*** 60 Islamic Ways To Get %26amp; Keep Your Wife's Love Forever Insh'Allah ***?
MASHAALLAHHHHHHHHH



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THANKS BRO*** 60 Islamic Ways To Get %26amp; Keep Your Wife's Love Forever Insh'Allah ***?
you wrote 60..but i can only see 36 lol
if they only followed one third of this advice





we would be livin in heaven :D
That's so sweet :)..made me smile walah

i know someone who does that..may god protect them
Theres only 36?

But Masha-Allah it is still excellent!



You got starred by me!





IF You noe wat imean
nice Job thanks For the advice
You just answered your own question... why?
Asalam 'alaykum



alhamdulillah, thankyou very, very much for posting this, i was actually thinking of doing something similar, because even though im a girl, and not married, many of these can be applied for the husband, or shown to help him understand the wife better.



Its so good to see that open perspectives still exist... and even though I'm pretty sure some are aware of these, they need that reminder every so often. Especially ones like #25, and its a reminder for the wifeys too, to not go over-board with it.



I especially like the way you have stated many Sunnah in there, truly the Prophet Mohammad, peace be upon him, was the best of all husbands and was the best to his wives, so therefore the best example for men and women alike to follow.



It really lightens my heart and makes me smile so much to read this, some of these are to dream for...mashallah, and im sure many of these the husband would appreciate too... so its very reciprocal. Amazing stuff!!!



Once again, thanks bro, may Allah bless your soul,



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no 6 will warm her butt not her heart u idiot
Make sure she wears a burka, Allah forbid anyone should see her face.