Thursday, October 21, 2010

Why do i keep falling in love gay men?

when I was about elementary school age i really like a boy major crush he had no interest. once we got to high school i later found out that he was gay. when i was in middle school i dated a gut and he during my college years i found out that he was also gay. when i was in high school i had two major crushes (years) one of which i actually dated the other i went to prom with. come to find out they are both gay. I really want to know what is up with this. how do i keep picking the gay guys or what is it about them that attracts me. What do you guys think?Why do i keep falling in love gay men?
you're probably just more attracted to a sensitive guy or maybe one that is more open with communicating, both of which happen to be characteristics of most gay menWhy do i keep falling in love gay men?
It's because underneath that soft womanly exterior, you are really a gay dude!



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Actually, you are probably attracted to sensitive guys who are in touch with their feminine side. Nothing particularly wrong with that.



The trouble is, you are going to have to sort between the metrosexuals and the homosexuals.
face it all the ';hot'; guys are gay
well most gay guys are hot!!!
Because you're gay too. It's Adem %26amp; Eve not Adem %26amp; Steve.
Turn your gay-dar on.
Cuz you can't have them. simple!
Have a look at why you are going in to a relationship Are you trying to be the rescuer ???
You are my sisters twin apparently. She even says that she 'changes' the men she goes out with, they always end up 'turning' gay after. Personally I think it's just they were in denial about it when she met them, or were at lest not totally sure of their sexuality. I'll never know why this happens, maybe your 'gaydar' is broken?
Maybe its because you like guys that you can relate to, easyer to talk to, you feel close to them, and you feel that you have something in common with and that thing was that you were both on the inside girls
Gay guys are super nice and are able to communicate better than the straight guy. they are emtional like girls so you can relate to them better
You are attracted to their sensitivity and Yin side of their personna. Don't be hard on yourself as there is nothing wrong with wanting those qualities in a man.



The whole rugged guy is over-rated anyway. It's great to have a man who pays attention to his appearance and likes to pamper himself. Usually gay men are so in touch with their emotions, they make better friends, so it's sad that they can't be available as lovers.



I would continue to be attracted to the people you naturally gravitate to, but I would always bring the topic up no matter how insensitive that sounds in a way that doesn't damage or completely insult his ego.



My mother married a gay man! I'm not supposed to know this but that must have been devestating to her. I consider that a very big injustice and lie.



Find someone sensitive and HONEST!!!! That should do the trick. Nowadays gay men are widely acceptable so I would see how confident he is before you date anyone. Someone really sure of themselves.



Hope this helps and good luck!!!!

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