Are you guys living together? Because a lot changes when you move in together...
Try to set up weekly dates and go out with one another.
Make it a priority!How do you keep that love burning???Please help?
You just have to keep lighting it again each day and keep piling on more wood. When it gets down you look for a new spark. Something to make it interesting again. My wife and I have managed for 30 years, you can too.
Be spontaneous! Think outside the box. You know his likes and dislikes, work with that. Fulfill some fantasies, try new crazy things together.
i was once told by an oder lady who was married for many years that she kept a diary of her days of dating with her man, and also she kept at it as they got married, she wrote anything in there, whenever she noticed they were in a boring routine she would read that diary and do something special from back in the days, and that would rekindle her passion and her husband's. i think it makes sense, so every now and then i too do the one thing my hubby loved at the beginning, wash his back in the shower, and do his feet. so that makes him remember he still has the same caring woman he fell in love with.
Love is a two way street. Ask him what it is that he want in a relationship. Then tell him what you want. We're not mind readers and sometimes you have to be brutally honest to get our attention
You don't keep it burning. Sooner or later, you're going to have to accept that you can't sustain the same intensity that you enjoyed in the beginning of a relationship. As time goes by, start focusing on other aspects of a relationship that are just as rewarding, if not more.
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