Can a man love a woman and keep away from her?

A married man told my friend when he met her 20 yrs after school, he loved her since he was 18 when they were students, he never told her because she was with someone else. My friends was since in love with him, never told him and married someone else too, thinking he never carred for her.

Now, she wants to have only a friendly relation with him ,but he runs away from her, to reappear and dissappear without a reason. She refused to him to be more than a friend, he said that this was very hard.

Do you think he lied to her when telling he was still in love with her? did he only want to have some nice time/ or he is runnoing away because he suffers being in contact with her?

How should she behave? I told her to forget he exists, but she says she thinks about him all the time since shr remet him.

How can I help her?Can a man love a woman and keep away from her?
Out of respect! He leaves because he has deep feelings for her, he knows that things with his wife %26amp; her husband would be mistaken as something else. Respcet for them but a deep feeling for her makes it hard for him to show his true feelings for her. Try not to put him ';On the Spot!'; They never had a ';Friendly Relationship,'; it will be hard on both of them. Start them out another way that will make them feel as if they aren't doing anything wrong %26amp; they feel as if they are in control.Can a man love a woman and keep away from her?
either one doesn't seem to be the right on for each other. Sounded like he like to fooling around with married woman and she like to fooling around outside married to experiencing the differences



she have been with some one and in love and going to married. Than she fall in love with other guy for the short time that she saw him.



with him, some time career don't permit you to stay in relationship. Because you can not be tight down.

Some time we guy think it is immortal to thing to do. She is a married woman. (But he much have thought about her in the first place and for that reason may cost her to miss leading).
He's accepted he cannot be friends, as he wants so much more, he's having real difficulty in trying to keep away, though he knows it would all fall apart in both marriages if he gave in to how he feels. Yes it probably is true love, should you break up both marriages to give it a try? No. Accept that it was never meant to be and focus on your own marriage.
They should meet and spend some time together including making sex. Ideal would be 2 nights together. Then they will cool down, both of them changed during the years and in their families, so they will ';wake up'; from that past time love, both remain with their families, but the friendship would be fortified for a long time. I would advice this even if I were the spouse of one of them, wife or husband does not matter.
All of the details weren't really necessary....there is only one factor that's really relevant. He is married. Married men are off limits. Your 'friend' needs to stand down.
She is married........everything ends there.........
maybe suggest she stays away ,sounds as if he is afraid of commitment,or maybe he just wants a booty call