Thursday, October 28, 2010

Do men hate their lover?

I've heard that men hate it when a woman loves them, in a sense that they will never ever feel the same way for that woman, and even if they (men) loved that woman before, they suddenly lose all their feelings for her if by any means they learn that the woman loves them back.

I've heard a lot, as an advice, that don't love a man or if you do, do not show it, always pretend you're not interested, not that much at least, to keep the man in love with you.

How much do you think this is accurate? is it merely a traditional way of love between men and women/ lover and the beloved, or is it also true about the modern lives and the modern men too?

If you don't agree, what do you suggest to a girl who is so in love with a man who is sure about her love for him?Do men hate their lover?
It's quite accurate - being a man myself, I find it hard to see if a girl loves me that much, the worst feeling is to find that they don't love you anymore.



It really depends on the man you like, some love you for a very long time, however some love you for a very short period of time. i would personally never leave a girl if i know that she loves me. you gotta make sure that you both can see that you both love each other. However DO NOT GO OTT! it can be the most annoying thing lol trust me.Do men hate their lover?
That's a generalization and it's almost entirely false.



Some men have problems with intimacy. They often feel uncomfortable with emotions like love and, when a woman loves them, it forces them to confront their own feelings. So they shut down and become emotionally vacant.



That certainly doesn't apply to all men, or even most men.



Most guys are looking for a relationship and are happy to learn that they are loved, especially if they have the same feelings. Amost everyone wants to be loved.

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