For Girls: How do you feel towards a man u love when he couldn't perform well in bed with you?

If you love a man, and then while you both are ready to having sex, you discovered he has a problem in erections or something. What do u think of him? Will u keep loving him and help him get over his problem? What if you know that his case is hopeless, what will you do?For Girls: How do you feel towards a man u love when he couldn't perform well in bed with you?
Having sex doesn't mean you're in love and being in love doesn't mean you have sex.



Personally, I would stand by him no matter what. And help him in any way I could.

And any girl that wouldn't isn't even worth your time.For Girls: How do you feel towards a man u love when he couldn't perform well in bed with you?
Love and sex are not the same thing.

And if you need sex to love then you don't have love in the first place.
I would still love him regardless and try to find a solution. Sex is way better with someone you really care about anyways.
i WOULD HELP HIM TRO SORT OUT THINGS N i will b with him
MOST GIRLs will feel that they arent attractive enough and that they still might be the cause
I'm a female and my fiance has this problem. Doesn't make me love him any less at all. Most women are really understanding. Just don't feel bad about something you cant help. Or she'll get tired of comforting you about it.



Good luck!
lol I might feel relieved. Sex can be too demanding sometimes and I'm glad to get out of it. I sound horrible but whatever. I'm just not that into sex bc it hurts sometimes. If ur girl is a sex fiend then she would dump u. It depends how impt sex is to her.



Perform oral to make her feel wanted n satisfied
well, I'd suggest u to stand wid him n see a gud doc who can help u... evn if d prob isnt fixed, he'd fall in luv wid u fr ur efforts!
if she didnt eat all the valentine candy and the krispie kreams through out the year, maybe hit the gym once in awhile he wouldnt have a ';problem';



Why do women think all a man has to do is snap his fingers and POP, it works???



Thats something you get on the 4th week of boot camp in the military waking up in the middle of the night. maybe if women made ';more of a freaken effort'; men wouldnt have this ';problem';
loving has nothing to do with that BUT for me i would help him since he really needs me.its not his fault that he's like that and if ever its hopeless i would still stay and love him.
If I really loved him, I would find a way to work it out. Relationships aren't all about sex, you know. Then again, neither should you stay in a relationship where you are getting what you need. If you are an incredibly sexual person who needs the actual act, then you may want to leave the relationship so that the both of you can find someone better suited to the each of you.



Yes, he should've told you about this before the two of you hopped into bed. But you should also be a bit more understanding about this- after all, this is something he was afraid to tell you about because he thought that you would leave him.



If sex in a relationship is truly that important to you, then you may need to leave the relationship %26amp; find one that is better suited to you.
tough one...coz am a very physical gal so if you rolling with me you need to have tough game.amin sex is a very important part of a relationship you know..if i really do love him then il stick around but if he takes too long to solve the problem then am sorry but i cant promise to stay faithful..