Kept saying he loves me... how can i believe someone telling me he loves me but he f*** other women?
Other than that, He provides me with anything, not abusing..
but now i cannot believe everything that he says..
I said you dont deserve me..
but 2 innocent kids were playing so happily in the background..they know nothing...and they are fully loved by us..
he has done this before we were married. I knew that it is my choice to be with him..and choosing someone else before the wedding bell wont guarantee as well that there wont be ';cheating';... so..with kids..it's tough for me... i can forgive, but not easy, u know...its always hurting again whenever we want to get close, physically, emotionally...so..i find it difficult to be intimate with him..
Was it only for having side menu for sexual needs?
Unbearably sad.A love of a man to a woman. To all men/husband : Pls explain!?
Most of the time when men (or women cheat) it isn't out of ';love'; for the person they are cheating with.
Usually it is done out of anger or spite. They feel that their needs aren't being met by the person they're with so they go out to ';get theirs'; as a way of fulfilling those needs and as a way to ';get back'; at the person they feel is denying them that.
I'm not saying that this excuses the behavior or makes it right.
Also, it isn't the only reason that people cheat. Some people just cheat because they're ******* and no matter what they have or who they're with it will never fill a void they have in the middle of them.
I hope this helps.
Good Luck to you.A love of a man to a woman. To all men/husband : Pls explain!?
no, you don't need to be unbearably sad. may i ask how do you know that he goes to other women ? is it a mere guess jus becoz he had earlier such things ? or have heard through some one ? if through some one what authentication she /he has to prove his/her allegation.have you witnessed any act ? if so, why didn't you stop then and there? Now, thinking the future of your lovely kids,you are ready to adjust. will this be a concrete decision? if so, WHY DON';T YOU THINK NOTHING HAPPENED AND WELFARE AND CARE OF YOUR KIDS ARE UTMOST%26gt; THEIR FUTURE SHOULD BE SECURED WITH HIGHEST PROVIDENCE%26gt;FORGET this nightmare. live life just like that. I know it's hard. but when you think about your future with kids also . it's not hard in front of their future. ALL THE BEST
You knew it before you got married and you know it now. The reason why you're with him (ur children) is a very strong reason to be with him. Every relationship has a chance of breaking due to whatever reason. This one has too but so what. Try to forgive for the kids sake
i dont know what was going oon between you two that has led to this. but most sane men do not cheat their wives unless there is something lacking in the relationship. in my relationship i am the giver most of the time and i am the obne who is the romantic type. my wife just ignores me or even when she does have time to cuddle or make love she is doing it as though she is doing me a faavour. are you sure you are keeping your husband happy? in order to keep your husband wrapped around your little finger you need to be an excellent cook to keep his tastebuds satisfied and his keep / playgirl in the bedroom to keep him sexually hooked onto you. you give him good food and good sex and he will never ever dream of cheating on you. in spite of all this if he cheats on you then it is about time you consulted a marriage counsellor.
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