Thursday, October 28, 2010

How does one deal with a situation were by you get pregnant to a man who love you but you don't feel the same.

It's like this guy jus wants to be with you but you don even want to be with him. I realised l was pregnant after l had left him.ONLY to find out l was pregnant later and l told him. I don believe in abortion so that's why l decided to keep the pregnancy. I know he loves me but the thing is l juss don want to be with him.How does one deal with a situation were by you get pregnant to a man who love you but you don't feel the same.
Give the guy a chance...after all you liked him enough to sleep with him, you were not using him then, were you?

Just give him a chance and see how it goes.How does one deal with a situation were by you get pregnant to a man who love you but you don't feel the same.
talk about it with someone ie friend or relative
maybe you shouldnt have slept with him then........
I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel asap so he doesn't get to attached.
it really depends on the social situation you are in right now. most societies have already learned to accept single mothers and that goes the same for the family of the girls as well. the only problem will be if your society mandates until now that you have to marry the guy who is the father of your baby. if you still live in a society like that, then there is nothing you could do but follow the norm and be with him whether you like it or not for the sake of the baby.
thats y u should abstane from sex before marrige, and y would u have sex with someone u don't love? but u better tell him the truth now , before u get in to deep, wich will cause more problems,raise the baby on your own, get a job, and collect child support, i feel sorry for the guy and the baby, good luck
Be honest. It won't do anyone any good to be in a relationship that is never going to work out. If you want him in the babies life I would suggest that you keep an open line of communication and try to take care of the financial support yourselves. If it gets bad and you just can't agree on the right amount then go to court. It works best for everyone involved if the relationship can be kept friendly. Make sure he knows that you DO NOT want a relationship outside of friends. You are now tied to this man for the next 18 years. My husband has a daughter by a woman that he didn't love but was in a relationship with. They have a lot of resentment towards each other. Their daughter turns 18 this year and she is a mess. Very depressed girl. My husband rarely talks to her or sees her. I would advise you to really be honest and open with this man. No matter what there is a new life that depends on the both of you for all it will need. Do the best by this new life. Good luck with all that you choose.

Love %26amp; Light

Sharon
It's due to changes in your bbody chemistry.

Pity you didn't wait till the proper time.

It's going to get much worse. Seek council and help.

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