How do you tell if your man is in love with you??

We've been together for 18 months and are living together.

He has talked about marriage and we are planning to build a house. Is it normal to have the odd insecurities?? I feel at times that he keeps things from me. I have two children from a previous marriage that live with us for half the year. We do what's called the share/care arrangement. He wants to have children with me but is yet to have his sperm count done.

Our love has been good but seems unreal to me. Why?How do you tell if your man is in love with you??
Well its hard the second time around there are always insecurities involved.. But then again sometimes listening to that little voice is a good thing.. Sit down and talk about these with your man before the I do;s.. Allot of times just the look on his face or his actions can give you a good indication about things...How do you tell if your man is in love with you??
sweetie, its because you've already lost a ';love'; and that little voice in your head wont stop nagging. Sometimes its best to let love guide you, but keep your eyes open. its a fine balance. As long as you dont let it blind you love is the only true, pure thing left in the world. Your love seems unreal because thats what love is. Its unreal. Its perfection. And if you think its right, let it happen. But don't jump straight to kids. For children its really really really hard to live through divorces and if he seems to be showing that he can handle them well, then yes its ok. Just watch that. Otherwise good luck in love! :]

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Everybody is different baby. Take your time play it day by day and see where it goes.

Predictions=problems especially predictions from people who don't know you and don't know him.

You could take some strangers advice from this site and make things worse.

Keep yo head up and keep your faith in you and your family.

Good Luck.
I don't get the sperm count thing, but maybe you are hesitant b/c you feel overwhelmed. you have two kids and may have baggage from yr old relationship. it could be many things, I'm guessing that you do really know what they are ( maybe deep down). You have reasons for these thoughts. Maybe you need some alone time, away from evryone( including the kids ) to just sit and think.
it sounds like your still scared from the last relationship.as hard as it is try to keep the past in the past. it is normal to have insecurities but make sure thats all they are. 18 mo. really isn't a long time, go slow, if its right you'll know it.
By what he does, not what he says - talk is cheap.