How can you love a man that has cheated on you numerous of times?

i in love with a guy that has cheated on me six times sometimes i think i deserve this? maybe i not doing something right i very independent i not asking him to do anything but love me do you think its me.maybe i want to much.he says he luves me but if he does he would hurt me. i love him and i keep taking him back.someone please help meHow can you love a man that has cheated on you numerous of times?
Don't, your just punishing yourself. You need to walk away, even though it's going tohurt like a *****(female dog)How can you love a man that has cheated on you numerous of times?
Group love. Don't agree to what you are against.
Definately you can't love a man who has cheated on you numeours times. Eventhough you can forgive him for the things which he has done against you but there will be a time where you will feel bored. Love is something that comes naturally and not by forced.
Your being used and it's easy for him to do this because of your insecurity. You don't seem to have much confidence in yourself or what you deserve.
all woman think its there fault. for the record as a woman that has been cheated on alot its not your fault at all. i dont know what to say about him but i will say hes a dog. all men chase after tail. the problem is not alot of woman can live without the only thing a man thinks with. dont stress about it. if you love him then you need to do what you think is right. if you lived closer i could show you the way. good luck.
girl, please stop doing that to yourself!!! i dont care what youve done, but you most def dont deserve that!! breaking up with him might be hard, but youll get the benefits in the long run. he's not worth your time, and you know from experience that he'll just cheat on you again, even if he says he wont!

good luck, but you gotta get out!
Its not possible to love a man that has cheated serval times. He just isnt worth anyones time. Unless he has a really big d*ck that you just cant resist.



Gurl, you need to tell him it is over and find yourself a new hubby.
you can still love him even if you do not trust him. Think of yourself as a different person. How would you like to protect or nourish this other person (you) and help make her happy?
i understand how you feel, 4 years ago i was with a guy that keept cheating on me (18+ times) and i would take him back again just for him to do it again, its gunna hurt but turn ur back and say good bye. theres someone alot better for u out there
alot of girls are going through the same thing. For starters, its definetly NOT you. Its him. He needs to grow up. And unfortunatley some never do. U need to figure out how much u want to put up with, is he worth being treated like a fool. 6 times should be way over board. If he doesn't respect you now, he probably won't later. Unless u put your foot down now! Tell him how you feel, if that don't work, keep showing him, show him how hurt you are until it gets to his head. It gets tiring I know. But if u really love him and its worth your while, it might pay off in the end. But if he's not the guy let him run around like a dog in heat, and probably get aids or some kind of std. And tell him its his fault! Maybe he doesn't know that its hurting you that bad, some men are slower at thinking about women and their feelings, than others. Be staright forward with him. Tell him, and give him his options, you or his other g/f's. If he truly loves you he will pick you. If he doesn't maybe you need to try and move on. It's Not your fault don't ever forget that, no matter what he, or anybody tells you. U never asked for it, he's just a low life b/f. That needs to be put in his place! There are plenty of fish in the sea! And trust me there are alot of GOOD guys out there. U just gotta wait for the right one to come along, don't just settle for any guy. Get to know them before it gets serious. And if it works out with your b/f now, try and forgive and forget the past when u are trying, especially if your both working and trying at the relationship, when in a fight, because old memories for both of you surface, and it never ends good. But thats only if u both are trying not a one way street. I know its not easy to leave someone, its easier said than done! Figure out what you want in life, would u be better off? Does he love you? Take some time away from him, and get to know yourself. Try not to think about him all the time. It won't be the end of the world if u break up. There is alot of help out there. U just gotta reach out for it! Oh yeah, when u keep taking him back, in his mind he thinks its okay to keep doing it, u really gotta put ur foot down, and really give him his options, who does he love? Tell him you love him but its gonna hurt him even more when u leave him, that outta get him thinking. And mean it to. Actions speak louder than words. Its gonna be a really long process, or you can make it much easier on yourself, and start sooner than later. I have been there and it took me a few years to figure it out, and i'm still trying! But i thought if i keep putting it off, maybe he'll stop. FAT chance of that! LOL! I had to think for myself and put my foot down. And now we're happier than ever! Very much in love. It is possible, its jut gonna take alot of time and effort if you wanna make it work. If not, just throw in the towel and cut your losses. And tell him he had his chance!



I think thats enough for now! LOL! But i do know where your coming from. I jut hate to see others in the same position. But like i said its not your fault, i used to think the same, u just need to get to know yourself, talk to people, ask questions, do whatever it is that you need to. Figure out life, whether he's in it or not! It's gonna be a long healing journey, but there is hope! And don't give up either! Show him who's boss, and who wears the pants! Take control of your man!



I really hope things work out for you! If u ever need to chat, i will be there for you! my msn is shani_hance@hotmail.com dont be shy!



wish u the best of luck in the present and the future. I have confidence things will work out sooner or later! Take care of yourself! Shani!