I love this man but is it worth a try????

When i was thirteen,

I met a boy at the skate park.

He was seventeen at the time and i was a total tom boy, skating around in baggy jeans and Converse.

We were really good friends for two years until i was fifteen,

I totally fell for him in every way.

I decided to confess my love to him and he just kinda shrugged it off saying he just wanted to be friends. I was totally crushed, heartbroken even! I knew he wasn't interested because i wasn't cool and gorgeous like the girls he normally dated.

I was even more Crushed when two months later he announced he was moving to america with his family. (we stayed in contact the past four years via the net) and we are very close.

he recently came back to England and when we met He kept saying how i look totally different and i turned out really beautiful. He is treating me totally different like being all gentlemanly and such and he has asked me out. Its what i have wanted for such a long time but i can't shake the feeling that he only likes me now because im girlie and look Different.

Do you think i should give him a chance or is he just superficial???

Please help!!I love this man but is it worth a try????
It doesn't sound as though he's being superficial. You've grown up during the time he was away and you may be more appealing mentally and physically to him now but if you became 'girlie' just for him you're doomed to lose him because you will slowly revert back to yourself (if being a tom boy is what you prefer).I love this man but is it worth a try????
Did you change for him, or are you truly happy being the way you are now?

While its true, you should love someone for who they on the inside, you also have to be able to love them on the outside. If you love someone when you are alone together, but cant stand the way they act when other people are around, you cant really love them. You've got to love the whole package.

To be with someone you have to be attracted to them, and its quite likely that while he found you to be an amazing person, he couldnt be attracted to you when you look so much like a boy!

You were also quite a bit younger than him, so he might have seen you more in the light of a little sister, it happens a lot. Especially if you are still in school and he can go out drinking in pubs and clubs, and meet more mature women.

He has also grown up alot. Maybe he was just being immature before, and realised now what he was missing.

My point is, dont think less of him because he didnt find you attractive then, but as long as you are happy with the way you are now, and you want to be feminine (you arent just doing it to attract him) i dont see why you shouldnt be with him. You have changed alot, the person you were then wasnt compatible with the person he was then, but the people you are now might just be perfect for each other.
be very very careful please,he may think you are(easy)bad choice of a word,sorry..! nothing wrong in going on a date...
give him a chance :)
do you still love him?give him a chance if you still love him.