Pertaining to why men love bitches.. how do you act like a strong woman and hold your own in a relationship?

So, if youve ever read the book ';why men love bitches'; you will totally understand ..but if you havent:



why men love bitches.. a ***** in this book is defined as not an actual mean person, but a woman who holds her own in the relationshp... she is always with a good guy because she doesnt take any crap and doesnt always say yes to her boyfriend.



many woman are the 'doormat.' we always hang out with our boyfriend when it is convenient for him... we are always waiting on their calls or texts... we are always complaining they dont have enough time for us... or they dont call us enough...



but the supposed '*****', does not cancel plans to hang out with her boyfriend... if hes late she makes other plans.... she sometimes keeps him wondering and doesnt answer calls... shes basically more relaxed about the relationship and seems to be worry free..



now i am the type of girlfriend who worries about everythingggg. so i just want to know..ive already read the book and understand the idea of how to make him come to you.. by being less available and whatnot.. but im such a mushy, lovey and open person it is hard for me to say no and hold my ground...





can someone give me any tips on how to be better at this? thanksPertaining to why men love bitches.. how do you act like a strong woman and hold your own in a relationship?
Get a little spine and try it in one situation. See how you like the results.

Women actually can have an opinion and care about standing up for it. Give it a go!Pertaining to why men love bitches.. how do you act like a strong woman and hold your own in a relationship?
Just do it.Gradually start following along the lines of the book.If he calls and decides to go out with friends.You go out and have fun.You may not be able to stop thinking about what he is doing.But he will definitely not be thinking of you.There is your strength.Think of him not catering to you.Show him how happy you can be without him.He will be all over you so you won't forget.Take a deep breath...and BE STRONG...