How do I get him to love me regardless of me moving?

I am moving to Europe in July. My life here is very confusing and i need to start over. I need to forget everything here. Even the man i love. We have been friends for a 2 years, and we keep liking each other on and off. He sent me this email



It's weird because i understand you, we understand each other, everything happens for a reason right? :(... im trying hard to pretend you aren't leaving and you'll be here forever. If you weren't real, i'd make you up.... its so hard. if i fell in love with you now, i would be heartbroken forever and i'll never get over you because you are moving :'( i wont see you ever again... i think im in a depressed state and its just very confusing the way i feel...I...



At the end i think he was going to say ';I love you'; but when i asked him he said it was too hard and he couldn't tell me. How do i get him to love me regardless of me moving? i would visit very often because i have family here. I'd do anything, to have him. I love him so much. pls helpHow do I get him to love me regardless of me moving?
Aww that is soo cute! well he obviously loves you, but he's afraid to. That shows he's very sensitive. Looks like you found your perfect guy. He's depressed because he'll never see you again? did you even read this? it's so obvious he loves you! Hmm, i see your point though...why don't you meet up with him or call him, the way this guy is head over heels in love with you shouldn't be that hard good luck!How do I get him to love me regardless of me moving?
You don't ';get'; someone to love you, they either do or they don't, and even if they do, there can sometimes be obstacles that are deemed too hard to get over. This is definitely something you need to talk to him about. I seriously doubt anyone on Y!A will be able to answer your question.
Why should he love you when you are moving thousands of miles away? Why should he emotionally and psychologically harm himself to satify your ego? Why couldn't you start over in another state? Why move to a whole other country?



Seeing someone sporadically whenever they choose to visit is not the same as having someone nearby. He won't be able to drive to see you, or see you at all without making a huge financial sacrifice. You can't get anyone to love you and pressing him to do so is selfish. You made your choice and now you should just let him heal.
Tell him to come with you, drop everything and start a brand new relationship with you, sounds adventurous to me. The opportunity to start over in a new area of the world is great, imagine it, he wouldn't know anyone else and would have to depend on you for any sort of help. That kind of dependency could strengthen your relationship with him too, but only if you both have a mutual feeling that you're both each others ';the one';.
Well maybe you shouldn't move. If he loves you the way you think he does and if you love him the way you say you do, then mabe you starting over is a new life with him. If you really see potential in your relationship, like maybe marriage, maybe you both should move somewhere else together. If you don't believe its worth it, then you should move on with your life. If your love is that strong, you both have to be willing to make sacrifices. But if you want to be together for the long run, what would moving to Europe do? Maybe he can help with your life. Maybe you don't have to move to Europe, or maybe you can take a vacation to clear your mind or something. If you believe in your relationship with him, talk about it and make a descion that you believe will work out in the long run for you and him. If moving away is what you think you really need to do, then you shouldnt have any regrets about leaving.