If you are in love with a married man and he's living with his wife and kid....?

and he's claiming that he loves you too...and you don't see any problem with their married life..and he doesn't want to let you go because he's claiming that he loves you so much and that he always wanted to be with you so he's just stealing time from his family just to be with you....and you also loves him so much that you're jealous about his wife when he's not with you, you're still super jealous because he's with his family and you wonder all the time the things that they do inside their home being a family, being a father and a husband to his wife.....and you feel that you'll die if you lose him because of loving that person too much...what are you going to do?..how are you going to let go?...or will you just keep him..and stay with the given situation and be contented with what he can only offer?...til love dies..?If you are in love with a married man and he's living with his wife and kid....?
Forget Him, . Avoid Him. There are lot of other fishes in the ocean which are still unattached.


You, yourself know what it is that he really wants from you. Get Real. Ok?If you are in love with a married man and he's living with his wife and kid....?
get out its a no win situation ive been there. you will only have heatbreak .
You should seek help, first of all.


Second get a life of your own- not someone elses.


Third- find a man who isn't already attatched, you will never take the place his family has.
I SAY YOU BOTH NEED HELP. BECAUSE IF I WAS THE WIFE, SOMEONE WOULD HAVE TO DEAL WITH ME, and no one wants to deal with me...GET OVER IT!!! IF HE'S NOT HAVING PROBLEMS AT HOME, THEN HE'S NOT GOING TO LEAVE HIS WIFE. You should seek single men only. I am only saying this because it's a waste of time, honey...just get over it.
OK so now you can change your name to Cleopatra, 'cuz you are the Queen of Denial.





He's not leaving his wife and family for you because you don't require that of him, and I doubt that putting your foot down at this stage will change his mind on that.


He's a married man with a wife %26amp; kids, %26amp; you are THE OTHER WOMAN!





Face it, that's the way it is, %26amp; the way it always will be as long as you stay with him.


So are you going to be content with that?


I hope not, but the choice is yours to make!
you can wait around until she finds out why he's such an a**hole to her and their kids and she gets an attorney and kicks him out. Good thing for you ...he cant LIE to you......you already know that he will cheat on his spouse. You could be cheated on by him next and I guess youre okay with that though, right?
Please move on from this guy. Don't mess up a marriage! Does his wife know this is going on? If you continue to see this man your setting your self up for hurt. God Bless!!!
FORGET HIM,


FORGET HIM,


FORGET HIM,


possibly change the place you are in now, you are wasting your life,


humans are exceptional and women are the best to forget the past when they get an alternative.


he might be the best choise as of now but he is not the best choice to be your life partner. and for him you are an alternative best not the prime.


dont waste your time.
Tell me... even factiously, that you'll EVER trust the man you began a relationship with while he was married. Do you respect his devotion to his child? Oh, that's right! He's stealing time from his family for you. Does this make you feel special, that some dude with a bent moral compass will deny his offspring for you? I'd suggest you grow up, evaluate what it is that gives you the right, privilege, or any other construction of empowerment to destroy this childs chance at a family. Also ask yourself this: would you want him as the father of your own child? He's already told you he has no compunction about deserting his children... what's one (or two) more?
okay, first of all , he's a married man!! He's already married and has a KID!! I don't think you will get too far in this relationship. You are not going anywhere with him. This tells us what kind of man he is, he cheats. If you two are together, and they divorce, he might do the same thing to you, and cheat on you with someone else. How would you feel? But yourself if his wife's shoes. How would you feel if you thought someone you loved and trusted, has been cheating on you this whole time?Even if his wife finds out, he'll run back to his wife and forget about you. If they do get a divorce, you'll feel guilty in life becuase they have a kid. An inoccent kid, that might blaime you for his parents getting divorced. He might say that he loves you, but one day, he won't be able to take the pressure anymore, and feel really guilty about it, he's going to call it quits. Then what? You've been sticking with a married man for a long time, and now you're lonely? Trust me, it's going to go nowhere.
I know its hard, Trust me I know my love was married (i didnt find out untill i was in deep though). My best advice is to swallow your pain, and let him go. Put yourself in his wife's shoes. Imagine thinking everything is fine, YOu have a wonderful husband, who is a loving father. Its poosible for him to tear his family apart hanging on to you. You have to ask yourself. Do you really wanna be the reason a family is broken? As well as, I understand he loves you, But he cannot have his cake and eat it too so to speak. He is enjoying the best of both worlds. THe only ones who really suffer here, are his children, like you said he is giving up time with his children to be with you. That is not fair for his children who are the ones that need him most.


Let him go swettie, i know it will be hard but that is best for everyone. Not to mention You deserve better then that. You need someone who can give you their all. Why settle with a man you have to share?
Get rid of him. Dont waste your time and be a homewrecker.


His family needs him, esp his children. Dont take the time he is giving you that is suppose to be for his children. You need a great conscience here baby. Dont be contented with the few hours given to you. You deserve much more time. There are plenty of fish in the ocean baby, catch one for your own consumption.
I think you need to focus on you and not someone who has a life with someone else. No married man is going to leave their wife and family for outside booty. Some married men say anything to have their cake and eat it too. You are not seeing the whole picture. You don't see the uncut version of this man like the wife does. What you want is something you can't have. You won't let go cause you are holding onto something that will never be yours...like chasing a rainbow. If you love yourself, you will learn to let go of the foolishness especially a man that you have to share. No man is worth you just settling with when he has a wife. You don't be content with that mess. He will respect you more if you went on with your life. He will never be yours. Learn what love is and who God is.
forget him!
he wont leave his wife,he just wants you on the side.if he does to her he would do to you too,keep away
Sorry to hear you are hurting, but do you want to be a home-wrecker? And even then, that could only happen if he actually does leave his wife. How would you feel if you were in the wife's shoes? And what about the kid that has done nothing to deserve this? Maybe this man is only doing this because he has found someone who will let him. Maybe this sounds mean, but I think move on and find a decent man who is available and has better values and who will love you (unless cheating and sneaking around is what you want in life). Good luck.
No, you go find an UN married man and make a life with him GEEZZ!!!!
Personally I'd find a way to fall out of love real fast if I ever found myself in that situation. My reasoning is that if he loves his wife and is still finding time to cheat on her with me what do I do when he finds love of his life number 3 and cheats on both of us with her? I don't need that kind of crap in my life.





How to let go? Stop spending time with him. Make yourself go out with other friends to stay busy. Start enjoying just looking at other guys and exploring the possibilities out there. Eventually you'll find you *need* and *love* that jerk less and less and move on to a relationship that has the potential to go somewhere.
he's MARRIED! you are what is commonly referred to as ';a booty call';. get out. grow up. move on.