Friday, November 19, 2010

I am in love with a married man and he is acting different now from when we first meet what shall i do?

I have been dating him for 3 months now we use to talk all day now it is maby once or twice he dont answer my text messages some time nor his phone and he tell me he was sleep or his wife is there but she's really at work. he is with his friend. Please no smart remarks i am hurting enough if you only knew how it feel to be in love with somebody im finding my self crying i know I should just walk away but it is not just that easy i know i need to just walk away but do you think I should just be patient. just your opionin please dont say any thing smart if so just keep it to your selfI am in love with a married man and he is acting different now from when we first meet what shall i do?
He's never going to leave his wife for you. So either you accept the fact that you are an afterthought in his life and will always be so - and he will always treat you this way - or you go and find a man of your own instead of being sloppy seconds.I am in love with a married man and he is acting different now from when we first meet what shall i do?
Are you kidding me? Why would you post this? No one is going to give you advice and aid your quest of being a home wrecker. Marriage is hard enough! I'm a man who is as true to his wife as sky is blue and it is hard for men! He's an asshole for what he is doing and YOU are worse for helping him! Have you stopped to think that there is another woman who has devoted her life to this man? Another woman with needs who found him first? Although sucks for her though. There are billions of fish in the sea, find another one.
You know that you went to the dark side with that one. I'm sure that if you were married you wouldn't want your husband getting action on the side. Maybe he decided to work on his marriage and does not want to hurt your feelings.
the best is prob to walk away
Sweetie , don't you know you were just a substitute for a rough spot in his marriage. Do you want to spend the rest of your life sobbing over this one. He is A CHEATER. You desire better.
No, you are a homewrecker. Marraige is really, really hard. And if you were married, what would you think if you found out your husband were cheating on you? Its one thing if he lied to you and told you he was single, but No, you KNOW he's married. Leave this man alone. He is probably trying to work things out with his wife. Do they have children too? If so, you are working towards taking their daddy away from them. Does that make you proud? You can't possibly be in love with this man, because he's not in love with you. He is using you for the needs that his wife is not currently meeting. But remember, he loved her first, and he has history with her. Hopefully, he is wising up and realizing he needs to try to work things out with his wife. Maybe they are in counseling. Go get yourself a man that is available and leave this one alone. Guess what? If he does leave his wife for you, he will cheat on you later in life.
He is not leaving his wife. And if he did and stayed with you how long would it take before you start to wonder if he is doing you the way he is doing his wife.



You need to concentrate on why you put yourself in this circumstances. Remember YOU did chose to pursue this relationship. You choose who you love.

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