Sunday, November 21, 2010

What makes a female become cold hearted towards a man when she finds out he is a good man who loves her?

My girlfriend was was the best girlfriend in the world for the first three months of our relationship. Then when I started showing her my love,and giving her alot of attetion,she started treating me like crap. After being in the relationship for about 6 months she cheated on me. She didn't act as if it were a big deal,and she said maybe it was time for me to move on. She said that she would probably do it again and that rather than to keep hurting me again and again she would just let me go. Then about three weeks later she called me and ask me to come back to her because she missed me and that I was the only one who treated her like somebody. I've been back with her for about a month and she is already acting crappy again. She claims she loves me,but she doesn't know how to show it. She said showing emotions is stupid. she said it's better when you can just have casual sex with men no strings attached because that way you don't get emotionally involved and get hurt.What makes a female become cold hearted towards a man when she finds out he is a good man who loves her?
She's definitely taking you for granted. I suggest to not put in your time/effort with her if she will not treat you nicely how you're treating her.What makes a female become cold hearted towards a man when she finds out he is a good man who loves her?
dude .,dont get involved too much,kill her off slowly,so if she retailates u wont get hurt,she doesnt love u ,she just doesnt have any alternative right now ,when one comes up ,down the toilet u go,hurt and all battered and she wont feel a thing.enjoy what u can get ,

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RUN! she's very immature and doesn't recognize your value. Immature girls tend to lean towards guys that treat them rotten.
she's right...
its a girl thing
She just told you what she wants. No strings attached just casual sex and doesn't want to get emotionally involved. If that's what you want stay with her if not leave her and don't look back. Find someone who wants to be with you and you only.
Get rid of her, she is like a bad rash. If you don't get rid of her now, things are only going to get worse.
she took advantage of you, and she'll keep doing this. don't let her take you for granted, let her kow that you won't tolerate a one way relationship. leave her and find yourself a real woman
Insecurity. Has never had anyone love her unconditionally. So she is running scared and this is her way of shoving you away, because she thinks you are going to hurt her sooner or later.
shes scared shes gonna get hurt so she'd rather be the one doing the hurting.
Well, from what you've said this girl has a lot of emotional issues. You sound like a nice man. You should go find yourself a good girl who appreciates being treated nice. By the way, when a girl (or even a guy) says that ';they will probably just do it again and keep hurting you,'; what will usually end up happening is that they cheat on you or treat you terrible, and when they do, they say, ';well, it's not like I didn't warn you'; and they blame you!
It is very difficult when you love someone who can take or leave you, and that is what you got there--you care for more a lot more than she is capable of caring for you. As soon as something better floats by, she's going to dump you. I think you need to protect yourself and ease on back out of that relationship.
SHe's not ready for a relationship yet that gives that emotional attachment. The more you give -the more you're going to get hurt--I think she wants to -but I think she afraid to--so unti lshe's ready--it's going to be-no strings attached and she's going to be a wild child.
She's a superficial B*tch - plain and simple. She's going for the ';rode hard and put back wet look'; sweetie.





You're better off without her. I've seen women behave just like this and in 5 years or less, she's going to look like she's had no strings too. Rough around the edges and worn out.





Would you really want someone like this raising your children - much less having your children.....can you say ';prison for life?'; and with a warden from hell!





Run fast and don't look back.......there are good women out there that appreciate being loved and treated with respect. This one has no self respect.....therefore, she cannot recognize the respect that you are wanting to give to her. *tosses thumb* she's outta here! *W*
The girl you're dating is using you. She obviously doesn't care about you (if she did, why would she still be treating you so horribly?), so just leave her already. You won't be able to find a woman who loves you and treats you well if you're dating this witch.
When she is one of those stupid ignorant B%26gt;I%26gt;T%26gt;C%26gt;H%26gt;E%26gt;S%26gt; that would rather be with a piece of crap that treats her like crap than be with a nice guy like you.I have been with one woman that told me I was too nice and not enough of a challenge.Fortunately I have found a normal woman who appreciates a nice guy.To all you dumb broads who want a challenge dont come crying about your man treating you like crap or beating you etc.You made your own bed have fun lying in it.
get rid of her now!!!!!!!! she's immature and self centered. if you stay make sure you use protection so you don't catch anything from her.
umm.. she is a ho. let her go.





A female in her right mind would cherish a man like you. Don't blame yourself or birth a hatred toward women in your heart. Unfortunately there are bloodsucking, life-force draining man-eaters out there in a good girls disguise... you just happen to have found one.





Take out the trash and get rid of this girl for good.
First...you are a fool to go back to a woman that has cheated on you!!! When a woman that is faithful is treating you like crap then you are prolly just being too CLINGY...it's like that little puppy dog that follows you around and pees on you on a regular basis just to mark his territory...it gets really annoying...When a woman that is known for cheating, and yours is...it's usually but not always that she is already cheating again!!! There is also the possibility that she is only using you for something like sex, drugs, or money...and she doesn't really love you but will try to get you to believe that she does, meanwhile you still aren't getting the love and respect and sex that you need to be truly happy...Dump her and get a real woman...like someone that won't cheat...nice guys always suffer don't they...
She's absolutely right. Some of us just don't have any time for emotions 鈥?we have far more important things to do. Casual sex, however, is what we do for fun in our time between that spent at our careers, hobbies, and friendships. She's probably more interested in having you as a FwB than a boyfriend. I would try it if I were you.

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