Sunday, November 14, 2010

How do you catch and keep the attention of an older man?

I'm 29 years old and I'm madly in love with a 42 year-old guy who's been single for a long time and never married. I suspect he might be in the phase of wanting to settle down soon. How do I keep him interested? Advice from mature gentlemen will be greatly appreciated. (We're in the phase of getting to know one another; though not exactly dating).How do you catch and keep the attention of an older man?
it the same as keeping the attention of someone your own age - you pay attention to him and if he's interested in you he'll pay attention to you. you let it happen naturally that way, but naturally with your attention. older men are like younger men and women of all ages and life if any species. if you give him your attention then he has something to respond to. if you don't give him your attention then he has nothing to respond to. and when he gives you attention then you have something to respond to and so on - it's a spontaneous dance, not a formula. good luck!How do you catch and keep the attention of an older man?
Be careful- why do you think he is gonna be in the phase of wanting to settle down now, when he should be in the phase of being married with preteens already. Theres gotta be a reason why he has never been married before. Don't rush into this. And think about it- when you're his age, he'll be getting ready for retirement. YOu have to think about your future too. Not trying to be mean, just looking out for ya. Good luck
get to know the real him. get him in a nice calm setting and have a deep conversation about life, his dreams, how he feels about family and how he wants his life to be like, im sure if hes a nice guy he will reciprocate and ask you the same questions. Voila, now you are talking to his heart and he is talking to yours:).

I cant help you after this though, your on your own lol
He may be 42 years old but he's no different from any other man. Assuming that he finds you appealing. Whatever appeals to a normal, average, intelligent guy is what appeals to a 42 year old guy. Expect him to be a little more laid back and sophisticated. He won't be excited to get out to the water park this weekend. He'd prefer to go to a really nice restaurant to dine, rather than a hot dog stand... not that there's anything wrong with a hot dog on a hot Saturday afternoon.
im sure you are attractive and can attract men youre age. im telling you, he knows what to do, you dont have to do anything at all to attract him. and yes, the y are correct, there must be some reason why hes never been married, and hes not gonna settle down anytime soon ;)
trust me...... i've been there myself, and i swear i will NEVER get myself into that situation. NEVER AGAIN!!!!

if he's 42 and still single, there's a reason why he's never been married. date someone your age. that's the most realistic thing to do.
If your 29 and he's 42 and he's a man....you shouldn't have to work hard to keep his attention. If you do, forget him. he's stuck in someplace you don't want to go.
He is toooo old . Theres no need to try to catch his attention hell pay attention automatically becaues your too good for him .



Your a shallow woman no smart woman want such an old fart !
Ask him out on a date!!!
eeeww why would u want someone that old??
stuff your dirty panties in his face and make sure they are still warm

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