Am in love with a man that's married

I am in love with a man i have known for over a year and a half, last febuary he told me he was married but i loved him and continued to see him until march as i told him he had to ditch his wife he he was to see me and take our relationship forward.we hooked up again for a drink in december he told me he got his wife pregnunt in august I felt like crap as i do love him. he has been consistenly trying to meet up with me and finally i succumbed to his charm. Iknow what am doing is not right he hasnt left his wife but see's me on the weekend. my question is is he ever going to leave his wife for me and leave his kid aswell plus lose half of his assets as i know he loves me and yes i may seem greedy but i cant help how i feel. I want to know from a mans perspective do you guys keep us girls dangling on a carrot and have your cake and eat it or the promise of you guys telling us girls that you will be leaving your wife is really bullshit. I need to move forward helpAm in love with a man that's married
What are you doing?!!?

This man has a wife and a kid!!!!!

It would be totally selfish for you to do this to his kid so you can be with him!

MOVE ON.Am in love with a man that's married
You need to leave him alone and you can't expect him to leave his pregnant wife. He has to be there for her and for his kid. You're really selfish. How would you feel if you were married to someone and he was tellin another girl he was gonna leave you for her?
Why would he give up anything when you give him the extras he wants at no cost to him?
if he was in love with you he wouldnt be getting his wife pregnant would he? leave him because he isnt ever going to leave her. plus if he truly valued you and wanted to make things work long term then he'd do it on your terms wouldnt he?
Put yourself in his wife's place! If he's cheating on his wife, he would most probably do it to you.......he's a user - a rat!



What goes around, comes around!
ok dear



1) tell him to choose between you.If hes a descent guy

he should give it a go with his wife



2)ONCE A CHEAT always A CHEAT



3)think if the truth comes out how you will be seen :(



4.)Its not your fault its his he should choose betweeen you

you should refuse to see him untill this has been sorted out

otherwise it will just be an affair and you are just going to be

used



5.)Is this fair on a child.DO the descent thing make him choose
I am a guy and i think its different with every guy, but i dont think in your case he has any intensions of leaving his wife, or kid, the only thing that is special about you is your know what, she is his wife, the women he married.
i just hope this world has less people like you, how can you be so nasty
Go somewhere you'll find better people. Hit the night clubs i'm sure you'll have fun, and hopefully forget all that. Married guys take advantage of girls like that. Maybe they only use their wife for her body instead of the love that is needed in a marriage. I'm single, but I know a lot about marriage. You made a mistake on keeping the relationship even after finding out the truth. The more committed you get to people like these, the more you'll regret, and feel bad once everything falls apart. I've never been married before, but i'm sure i'll handle everything just fine.
I hate to be the one to tell you but women like yourself for some reason or another feel deep inside like i know i don't deserve any better than crap, lies, deceit, used, always be second, never first, don't you get tired of putting yourself down and allowing other's to do the same. You need to give yourself some love, stop seeing anyone until you see yourself worthly of a queens crown, loved, to be first, to be a priority, to be treated special, beleiving in dreams like this will never come true, think about if it was not you it would definately be someone else, you are not special in his life, if you leave today he has his wife to come home to and you will still be alone. Treat yourself better and you will receive better. I come from a long line of women respectful women and beleive me when you demand your respect you will receive nothing less than what you deserve. Stop accepting anything anybody tells you LOVE YOU FIRST then you will know what you are giving in LOVE to someone else. Beleive me it is not with sex and gifts Evaluate what it is you want in a man now you have a guide as to what kind of man would be good for you cause any man is not going to work, give the right one the chance not for him for you, don't you deserve it, I do.
He doesn't love you hun. Deep down you know that. He has no reason to leave. You don't love him either, when you love someone you want what is best for them, not yourself. Remember the law of karma is always at work, what we do comes back to us. Without fail.
Hey, maybe it's time to move on for your own sake. You can and will do better. This man has a responsibility to his wife and his child and must be there for them. Find your inner strength and let go of this relationship. Easier said than done I know but as time passes you will be glad you did. There are heaps of gorg single guys out there - go shopping, get your hair done then get your new glad rags on and hit the bars %26amp; clubs, visit different towns and cities - there's a whole world out there to discover, trust me you don't know what you're missing. Be strong cos this guy doesn't deserve you, please don't waste another minute on this man. Remember, you can do better, always be happy....best of luck to you!!!
your going to have to let it go he is a typical player and wants the best of both worlds you cant help who you fall for but you can stop seeing him you will move on in time change your number and try and forget him it will take time but you will be ok . you cant trust a sleeze of a man like that anyway as he may well do it again to some one else


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Sarah, I have read peoples problems similar to yours time and time again.. I think that all though you obviously have feelings for him, you need to call it a day. You need to stand your ground and let him know that you are no longer going to play second best you have done this long enough now and its time you put your self first- whether its going to be painful or not. This guy is a real player and hes making a mug of you. If he was going to leave his wife he would have done it a long time ago- even before his wife got pregnant.. He is obviously having unprotected sex with his wife and then coming to you.. what a sleeze.. Men like him think that they are irresistible and indefeatable, he has got a right cushy life- when alls hard at home he comes running straight to you.. You need to ask yourself if this is really a relationship that's worth all the heartache- that's if you can call it a relationship, hes using you for sex and everything he is telling you is a lie- he doesn't love you, hes definitely not going to leave his wife and kids and you need to stand up and walk away. Life is short, do you really want to waste it on someone like him? I know I dont know what its like to be in your situation but i have a outside look in and i can tell that hes really making you upset.. Please dont be second best you deserve a man that's there when you need him, that loves you always and doesn't treat you like a fling... After all no one deserves to be 2nd best- and clearly that's what you are..

Hope This Helps x