Am in love with a married man?

I am in love with a man i have known for over a year and a half, last febuary he told me he was married but i loved him and continued to see him until march as i told him he had to ditch his wife he he was to see me and take our relationship forward.we hooked up again for a drink in december he told me he got his wife pregnunt in august I felt like crap as i do love him. he has been consistenly trying to meet up with me and finally i succumbed to his charm. Iknow what am doing is not right he hasnt left his wife but see's me on the weekend. my question is is he ever going to leave his wife for me and leave his kid aswell plus lose half of his assets as i know he loves me and yes i may seem greedy but i cant help how i feel. I want to know from a mans perspective do you guys keep us girls dangling on a carrot and have your cake and eat it or the promise of you guys telling us girls that you will be leaving your wife is really bullshit. I need to move forward helpAm in love with a married man?
You know he is never going to be yours. Accept that, then go to the old Dear Abby maxim, ';are you better off with him, or without him?'; If you want to just use him for sex, and perhaps part-time emotional support, perhaps this is enough. I know a woman who has been seeing a man on the side for 30 years. If you do not want to settle for this, then simply stop seeing him. No explanation, no calls. Don't read his e-mails, dont answer his calls, simply have no contact. He knows what's up. If you want to continue as is, accept it for what it is. Do not try to come between him and his wife. Do not try to leave your marks on him, underwear in his car, or anything like that.

Remember, even if he left his wife to be with you, you would end up with a man that you know is a CHEAT. Do you want that?

Am in love with a married man?
He's never going to leave his wife, child, and half his money for you.



It almost never happens. It's just too much to lose. And the scary thing is, if he did do that to be with you, how do you know that he won't do the same to you one day? Or do you think you are so special he would never leave you or cheat on you? Because I suspect his wife used to think that too.
He's using you! Thats what you get for messing with a married man.
You need to first find a man. He is not one i assure you. A man does not allow himself to be in this situation. As for you move on to a single person and put him behind you.
Since you know he will never leave his wife, are you fine with that? If not, then tell him it's either you or her. If he can't decide, then you have to leave him. Or you can continue to share him.
You need to leave him now, If he didn't make a decision already you need to make it for him. He is being greedy and is having more than his cake.



If you ever was to be together think how this exclusive relationship will work because in these circumstances it wont. Be strong and have some form of integrity and class .
Forget about it, he isn't leaving his wife, his child and half of his belongings for you. He is using you for sex.