How do men express love?

';Nothing on this planet can compare with a woman love鈥攊t is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. Pure. If you are her man, she will walk on water and through a mountain for you, too, no matter how you鈥檝e acted out, no matter what crazy thing you鈥檝e done, no matter the time or demand. If you are her man, she will talk to you until there just aren鈥檛 any more words left to say, encourage you when you鈥檙e at rock bottom and think there just isn鈥檛 any way out, hold you in her arms when you鈥檙e sick, and laugh with you when you鈥檙e up. And if you鈥檙e her man and that woman loves you鈥擨 mean really loves you?鈥攕he will shine you up when you鈥檙e dusty, encourage you when you鈥檙e down, defend you even when she not so sure you were right, and hang on your every word, even when you鈥檙e not saying anything worth listening to. And no matter what you do, no matter how many times her friends say you鈥檙e no good, no matter how many times you slam the door on the relationship, she will give you her very best and then some, and keep right on trying to win over your heart, even when you act like everything she done to convince you she The One just isn鈥檛 good enough.

That a woman love鈥攊t stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance. ';

鈥?Steve Harvey (Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment)



(By the way that is a great book!)





I know that men don't love the same way we women do. So how DO men love? How do you feel about the woman that you love and what are you willing to do to show her that you love her?How do men express love?
Dear Jessica,



That sounds like a true definition of the meaning of 'Love'; but is it exclusively the love of a woman? Or is it the perception of a man, of the woman he loves, of her love for him?



On reflection, much of it could be used to describe the love of a parent (regardless of sex) for their children.



As regards the book that you'r quoting?



I really can't comment, as I've never read it.



You say that you, ';Know that Men don't love the same way as Women do';, I'm sorry that I can't agree there, but remmember most people will meet and start relationships based on Desire, not Love. Love may come later, or not; but to Love someone, you have to have experienced a part of them, what they think, feel, believe. Many relationships never get that far, but get hung up on the Physical Desire they might percieve as being Love.How do men express love?
I would say every guy express their love differently, some through songs, some through their gifts, some through their happy pleasure, but as for me I think using words that have a true deep meaning inside the heart which can melts a person's heart without using other people's words. Like an original poem. Every one can write, but when you are so deep in love you can write fantastic and really beautiful poems. So yea.
I can only answer for myself. Up until probably 4 years ago, I am 44 now making love was the most intense way that I showed love, now this may sound silly but when a man wants to express his devotion to a women he wants to have sex with her, its very strong in younger men and its our animal way of making our chosen mate ours, it seems to be a very primeval way of almost scenting our alpha female which we of course call love. But now that I am older I express love in the most simplest of ways that have nothing to do with sex at all. Its in the small daily things of putting her First before your needs, from Tea in bed to washing up when she has had a long day, and doing them without any huffing and puffing, just simply things done with humitly and love to help support your partner. Sadly though she ended up like most humans and took it for granted and it ended, but I feel more balanced now because when I was younger I would have done those things for more sex, now I do them for her pleasure, well I did ha ha
work their lives away.