Sunday, November 14, 2010

How do I keep from pushing a man away?

How do you know when the right time is to tell a man you think your falling in love with him? How soon is too soon? I don't want to scare him off.How do I keep from pushing a man away?
When you are absolutely sure that he is in love with you too. Why don't you wait and let him say it to you first. That way you can't go wrong and push him away.How do I keep from pushing a man away?
talk with him



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we dated for two weeks then he told me he was fallin,we will be married two years next month.tell him when you know for sure
Sorry I can't help. But if you ever want to know how to push a man away I'm the girl for you.
when you're over the infatuation, butterflies in your stomach everytime you're with him that type of new relationship jitters and when you feel it is right and your comfortable with him, and dont expect him to say it back either and dont question him if he doesnt he may just need time or is thinking whoa she loves me i think i might love her too type thing, give it 2-3 months of being together to really gage how you feel and then decide weather to tell him how you really feel.
don't be clingy. make him have to work to keep you. make him chase you. its never too soon as long as you KNOW the feelings are true.
If you can't see that he feels the same way, it may be too soon. Let it chill for a while. You should get a strong signal from him when the time is right. Wait for the signal!
you need to be open and honest with yourself....do you really love him or is this just some circumstanstial crush like love you're feeling...



If you know it's love then don't hold back hun...if he gets scared just give him some time and if he doesn't come around, you need to keep moving cuz the right guy;s still out there waitin for ya and trust me, it's better to find that someone than settle for half-assed........
First, make sure you are really falling in love with him and not just lust. If you know he is looking for commitment, then anytime should be ok, but if not, well then he may never want to hear those 3 words and there is really not going to ever be a good time to tell him. Depending on how long you have been with him, you should know his motives for dating. For fun %26amp; play? Or For Real?
Us women are so anxious to fall in love. Patience is virtue, Good things come those who wait. Give each other a chance to grow then hope it blossom into love.
start with small things and dont put so much pressure on yourself. just hangout with him and let things unravel themselves. dont put pressure on yourself to say you love him, and make sure you dont label yourself as someone who pushes guys away, because attitude changes everything.
I'd say wait for him to tell you, but if he seems to be struggling, make it easier for him. Say something like 'I love you kissing me.'
Your actions can do the talking for you in most cases but, that sometimes scares them unless they ask ,';what's going on?'; That's when you can tell him why you do the things you do for him. You have to be honest no matter what to let him know you are serious about the relationship and if he isn't then you need to be with someone who loves you for you. There really isn't a right time, it just happens in the blink of an eye. You'll know exactly when you should let him know when you're feeling you should say something about your feelings, that's the time. Good luck!

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