Sunday, November 14, 2010

How do you keep a man interested and excited after several years in a relationship?

I am 35, my fiance is 23. We have been together almost three years, and counting. The problem is, as with any young man, he is feeling a bit overwhelmed, and possibly bored with the relationship. At one time, we did fun things together, and shared new experiences. he was the most attentive and romantic man I ever knew. Now, we work, pay bills, and have so little left over for anything, let alone fun. He's bored, I'm bored, and he is feeling like there is so much more out there for him than the dull, everyday life he leads with me. Help!!! I need to know what I, (we) can do to turn things around before it is too late. He is young, and strong willed, but I truly love him and don't want to let go. I want to find a way to ignite the fires that burned only a short time ago.How do you keep a man interested and excited after several years in a relationship?
Well it sounds like you gys are getting comfortable with eachother and having to get into reality instead of tuning out the rest of the world because everyinthig was so new at first. With your age difference, you and him were probably having a great love life due to you and him both being in your sexual peak times. Women and men are on different clocks biologicly so the age diff makes sense. But when the passion is starting to fizzle you may start to realize that sex isn't the only reason people get together and is the last reason people stay together.



There are lots of ways to spice up the love life if that is what you are really looking to do. Role play, go to a Pure Romance party (hehe) and learn from an expert and your friends what others are trying, add some bedroom accessories and try a weekend getaway. Good luck in making your choices.How do you keep a man interested and excited after several years in a relationship?
well all long relationships......have up and down times to them....and thats expected.......if you ve had friends for a long time........that relationship takes up and downs too.

If you re talking about intimacy ';fire';.........go together as a couple......check out some of the sex shops in your area.......some of the aids..........books........or different ideas. Kama Sutra books are nice starts for that.
Yesterday you said you had a ';husband';,now it's ';fiance';,which one is it?
Get into bondage
Go out for drinks (alcoholic),female must be in a short skirt, sit on a hiigh chair tease him.

go home try any and every thing sexual eg shower together, anal sex, porn positions be creative....
for me it would be roleplay,,, i'm trying to lean my wife in that direction now. it would be fun and keep things different and new feeling. well at least that's all i could think of for us other than threesome and i don't see her doing that . so i'm trying this,,,lol good luck

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